Channy Crossfire discusses the Elephant in the room, Being a Goddess,mental health and much more in this exclusive interview

Channy Crossfire is a first-generation Cambodian, Vietnamese, and Chinese-American model from Long Beach, California. She is also a mental health advocate for the non-profit organization http://endoverdose.net, which gives free tools to the public to bring to end Fentanyl overdose. For all things Channy, please go to: https://linktr.ee/channycrossfire. For bookings, please contact Coxxx Models: coxxxmodels.com. My original intent going into this discussion was to catch up with Channy following up on our first discussion from 2 years prior and help get out the word for people to vote for Channy in the Goddess Among Us contest. It evolved into an amazing discussion touching on Mental Health, her evolution personally,professionally and spiritually and how some of Channy’s most personal experiences drive her burning ambition to help others as a result of her journey thus far. For all things Channy, please go to: https://linktr.ee/channycrossfire. For bookings, please contact Coxxx Models: coxxxmodels.com

 

SW: Sherman Way

CC: Channy Crossfire

SW: The contest, tell me about that.

CC: All right, so the contest is called “Goddess Among Us”, and it’s kind of a reality show/slash beauty pageant. They’ll take other females or goddesses from different countries, different continents and we get to learn about them, their origin story, their country. Aside from getting a LFC or a lingerie fighting championship contract, the winner also gets some money to choose however you want to spend that it or help out your family, or give to any nonprofit organizations or communities. So there’s definitely some altruistic, humanitarian philanthropist goals here. But not just that, it’s another platform to uplift voices of other goddesses and women from around the world. I’m in the semifinals right now. So with more of your votes, you will be able to help me be one of the few contestants to represent the United States of America, aka North America. I would love to be one for representation for this country. I think I’m well-rounded and diverse and on and off cam in both my vanilla life and even with this entertainment industry. So I represent both different worlds here. And if I’m able, I would encourage people to have more deep conversations. I’m looking forward to pick the other goddess’s brains from other countries, see how life is for them over there. If they’re willing to get that personal with me, you know, I try to keep it real. Anyways, yes, so your votes will help me get through these rounds, the finals. So I’m excited.My big picture is the more exposure I have, the more platforms I have, the more I’m able to bring more awareness with mental health and certain social stigmas and bring more social awareness to things.

Please vote daily: https://goddesscontest.com/contestants/channy-crossfire/ 

SW: In the beginning of your career, I noticed you did a facial abuse scene, your thoughts on that.

CC: Oh my gosh. Hell yeah. Okay. Thanks. Thanks for putting a spotlight on definitely one of the elephants in the room, you know. It’s definitely my most hardcore and extreme shoot I’ve ever done. And yeah, I’m definitely a trooper. I’ve heard stories of people who cut in the middle of the scene, who canceled it, who gave up, and I really don’t blame them, you know. I think the reason why I survived is because one, I genuinely have a passion for some of those kinks and fetishes that got me through. But not just that, it’s the mentality of it, the mental game. I didn’t grow up sheltered, I didn’t grow up privileged, so I know how to handle certain pressure. And not just that, my living situation at the time was different. I was going through a lot that year with breakups, a separation, with a grandparent passing away, I was grieving and had to move back into my mom’s and she used to be a toxic person in my life. I had lost my job. This was a few months before quarantine. At the time I was on my mom’s couch for about a year until she had me start paying rent. So my mentality was, oh no, I need to get this money and save up. I’m not gonna give up, you know. I gotta find my own place. I gotta restart my whole life all over again. But the reason why I bring that up is because I went into that scene already taking care of my mental health. You know, I already made steps to have certain boundaries. So I think a lot of people that didn’t survive that shoot or survive that scene I think they were triggered a lot. You know, there are a lot of things. They were pushed, they weren’t used to being pushed, you know? And they probably had some breakdowns. They probably snapped, you know? And even I was really close to snapping. You know, if that went off for another hour, I probably would have snapped. I was really close to throwing up my hands. Cause again, I’m trained in martial arts. So that’s another reason why I stuck with it, I stuck through the whole scene because I knew, If I honestly felt like my life was being threatened, I definitely would have done something already, you know, but a lot of these females don’t have that type of guidance, don’t have that type of mentorship. They probably didn’t mentally prepare themselves. So I don’t blame them for, for snapping, for breaking and for giving up. I don’t blame them at all, you know. But again, that’s why we have to have conversations like this so we can have proper safety protocols and learn healthy boundaries.

SW: But within that scene, though, did you know how nuts it would be going in?

CC: Oh yeah there’s a lot to unpack and unload with that scene for sure. I personally compiled a list of pros and cons for that project, for that scene, for that mission. You know there are good things that came out of it and bad things came out of it, but again I have no regrets. I don’t regret doing that scene at all because I still see some good from it. And again, the more I’m able to have conversations like this, the more I’m able to help out the next person. I’ve had females and other models hit me up about that scene to ask me what it was really like, and so that they know that they’re not alone going, that they’re not alone in experiencing that type of set. I come from both the vanilla mainstream industry, but also the BDSM community. I want to educate people that that type, that FA, is the more extreme version of BDSM. If you’re completely new to that role, if you’re new to that rabbit hole, I definitely would not have people go on that set if they’re so new to it. Especially since that set doesn’t offer aftercare, doing that type of impact play, you know, they treated it more as work. So they won’t genuinely be emotionally available for you to really make sure you’re okay, to have consistent positive feedback throughout the whole scene to make sure you’re okay, you know, their demographics, their niche, their audience, you know, I assume thrive on humiliation and getting off on it. They thrive more on females being completely submissive the whole time. That’s definitely something I learned shooting with them, that I can’t be submissive the whole time. I was definitely holding back that last hour. I saw it as a challenge though. That was my first CNC scene, and my last one. There were some things that they ran by me, but there was definitely some stuff they did not run by me, it was kind of improv for some of the interactions. I just went along with it. But that for sure can catch you off guard and can trigger you. I definitely got frustrated at some parts. I definitely got pissed off, annoyed, and irritated. But I did not cry. It did not break me.

SW: That scene aside though, are you genuinely a submissive person sexually?

CC: No, I, in the BDSM community and world, I identify as a primal switch. So switch is the person that can be both dominant and submissive depending on the dynamic you have with the other person, the other partner. So that definitely proved that I can’t, that I’m not submissive for sure. I’m not completely submissive, you know? Like even if I don’t show it, I definitely have that lioness inside, that if you provoke too far, if you push too far, if you back me in the corner too much, I’ll definitely make you hurt too, you know? That’s why, for this industry, I don’t ever recruit, I’m too protective in that sense, you know?

SW: That scene aside, we’re talking about mental health. We’ve had some people pass away in the business recently. Does this industry put that much on influence or pressure on you? Or do you think there’s pre-existing situations like in each person’s situation?

CC: Oh yeah, I don’t speak for everyone, but I do represent the people that don’t have the courage or will power to speak truth to power or to have the authenticity or life experiences, to talk, to have these hard conversations. And it’s a case by case basis for sure. And like I said, if you don’t already try to take care of your mental health, if you don’t know your boundaries, if you don’t know your do’s and don’ts, this industry will definitely push you to the edge or make you go off the deep end. I’ve definitely had recently had some deep conversations with other coworkers in this industry in regards to how I think, despite what I do, I’m actually naturally an introvert. I like my solitude too much, I only go out of my home if I have paid gigs, errands, if I need to travel, or if I need to take care of my mental health by going to the gym. Aside from that, I stay home. I keep to myself. I meditate in my safe space. I think it’s really the extroverts in this industry that are struggling more. I think they’re the ones that thrive off of other people’s energy and other people’s validation more.I think those are the ones that are struggling more in this industry, especially if they’re really close in their vanilla life with certain relatives and certain friends. It’s not even about if people find out, it’s when people find out. And luckily enough, I’ve already meditated on the pros and cons of that way before my first shoot, way before my first scene. So I had that advantage, you know? I think a lot of people don’t meditate on those types of consequences, pros and cons of trade-offs when they get into this industry. I think most people either get into it on a whim or on impulse, or they get trapped with certain social constructs, with their own family dynamics, or if they have toxic friends. But for most of us, it’s the money really. I try to educate people, this might be the only industry where the females actually get paid more than their male counterparts. And that in itself is very telling, you know, with the gender gap, right? So could you blame females for capitalizing on that? For taking advantage of that opportunity, especially since most of us in this country, even though it’s a first world country, can’t afford to wait a couple of weeks on that check, you know? Most of us don’t, most of us can’t afford healthcare. I just want to expand and align people why people will be in this industry in the first place.

SW: A lot of girls in porn now, just my opinion, don’t want to be here at all. They don’t like sex. This is not the business to do that kind of stuff with, You know, this isn’t the place for that. In your case, being a performer or sex worker in general, you’re constantly getting people throwing shit at you, whether it’s your family’s bitching, whether it’s your fans saying, you put on two pounds, now take three pounds off, just all of it. I would imagine all of that energy would be a lot to have to absorb and take in.

CC: Oh yeah. Hell yeah.

SW: And what gets the person to the point of you literally shut down and say no more. I can see the adult side of it, you saying “no more”, but you’re saying no more to life itself. Does that make sense?

CC: Hell yeah, that makes sense. And I want to take a moment to appreciate you opening up about that and having these hard conversations with me, because I live for these types of deep conversations. That’s one of my sole purposes in this life. That’s why I do what I do. And so, OK, so this will be one of the most personal and revealing interviews that I’ve done, especially with you. I don’t know if I told you this. I definitely mentioned it in some other podcasts. I’ve had two suicide attempts previously. You mentioned that, okay. Yeah, I’ve had two. Two before I got into this industry. That’s the plot twist. Two before I got into this industry. I think because I’ve already know what rock bottom is like, I made sure to never go back there. And that’s why when I got into this industry, I made sure that I’m still staying true to myself, that I’m not trying to conform to someone else’s ideals of me. I’m still staying authentic. I think because there’s a type of inner conflict when people, you’ve got to balance it. If you keep things too separate, with your personal life and work life, if you don’t know how to balance it and be in harmony with it, I think that’s where a lot of that inner conflict comes in and can lead to self-hate, can lead to a low self-esteem. I mean, there are a lot of different factors and issues. It could be trauma growing up, it could be family dynamics that could push someone to the edge. But really, I think it just leads to not having enough self-acceptance, you know, to get you through. If you rely too much on external validation, if you care too much about what your friend thinks, what your family thinks of you, if you care too much about what society thinks, then it’s definitely going to push you more and more over the edge. A lot of it is either you’re feeling too much and you don’t want to feel anymore, you’re too overwhelmed, or you just want to be numb because you don’t want to feel anything anymore. That could be one of the reasons why people don’t want for them to no longer exist in this physical plane, to end some type of suffering. And it’s ironic because maybe that’s their last way of being in control of their life. It’s the last time I actually have a say, you know, with my own consent, that I’ll do this with my own life. That’s the training of it. But again, if you don’t find a bigger purpose for yourself, if you don’t follow your passions, if you don’t find certain things that help keep you grounded, you know, that help you stay level-headed and stay more in the moment. You don’t have healthy coping techniques or healthy ways to channel these intensities. That water is gonna keep overflowing and you’re drowning in your feelings. Luckily, I already started learning how to take care of my mental health, meaning I make sure I go to the gym in between my travels. I make sure to recharge, rest up, take my vitamins, do some yoga in between my travels and between my shoots to recharge. I think a lot of these gals, men, non-binary, anyone, again, they don’t get educated, mentored, or taught or guided that they need to have these types of self-care rituals in place to help them recharge, and to take care of their body in between these shoots and scenes. I’m spiritual. I know there’s a type of energy you’re exchanging with other people when you’re physically coming into contact with people, you’re absorbing, whether you know it or not, you’re absorbing their energy, you’re absorbing whatever traumas that they might carry, whether they know it or not. And it can affect you, mentally, psychologically, physically, whether you know it or not. I say this because I’m spiritual and I’m an impact. I tend to absorb other people’s energy more easily. I tend to feel other people’s pain and suffering more easily than most people, most average people. That’s why I’m the way I am. I do what I do and I support all these causes, you know? I digress. So if it pushes you, if you feel like you might be snapping, if you feel. Like you’re questioning your existence. Take a step back, reevaluate, reflect, you know? So again, none of these issues and topics trigger me anymore. You know, none of it’s raw anymore. I made peace with a lot of it already. So going on what you said, I remember the last time I was in that type of rock bottom, my last attempt. This was this was in my early 20s. I’m in my early 30s now. So yeah, but it was only these last few years I actually went soul searching and finding what my authenticity is, my real calling is. But anyways, I digress. So I remember, I remember feeling really, really hopeless that night with my last attempt. I think that’s what they all have in common. When you feel like you have no hope left in your life for anything, that’s crucial. That’s really crucial. That’s why we need to live life with some kind of hope that’ll help get us through. So when you feel hopeless, I could totally understand and feel why someone would feel have that type of conviction, you know, to do that. Yeah, but it’s not just that, it could be chemical too. I used to struggle with anxiety and depression. So another reason why this type of industry is good for some people like me is because it forces you to be in the present. That’s another reason why I like training martial arts and yoga. All that forces you, it makes you be in the present. So you’re no longer thinking about the past, you’re no longer thinking about the future. You’re living in the moment, you’re being more mindful. That is a type of healthy a dopamine and have a connection. But again, you know, everything in moderation, you know, you do too much of it, you end up using it as a crutch. You do too much of it, it’ll negatively impact other aspects of your life and lead to some kind of addiction.

SW: One question, it’s probably really personal. Feel free not to answer it. The second time you attempt and you don’t succeed, thank God. What is it like for you after that? That initial, when you wake up, I don’t want to say,” I’m still here”, but you know, I haven’t passed. Is that something you’re comfortable talking about?

CC: Oh yeah, like I said, it’s not triggering anymore. Thanks for checking on that. Yeah, you know, that cliche phrase, “It’s like having a new lease on life.”  You kind of see things differently, feel things differently. But it’s not just that. I had less. Like, even though I didn’t grow up privileged and even though I didn’t grow up sheltered, I still had a lot of pride back then. A lot more ego back then. I still had insecurities back then, even with my last attempt. You know? And it was only these last few years, it took 10 years later, and another domino effect and catalyst of events a few years ago to really make me go soul searching, you know? And the soul searching part is really where you learn what self love is and self care is. You really find out your identity, you know, your roots, where you come from and how you want to live your life. I remember being in my early 20s, even though I survived my last attempt, I was still in the matrix. I was still trying to navigate conventional standards, conventional expectations, conventional pressures. I still had a toxic relationship with my family back then, even with the last attempt. So even though it was my last attempt, you would think, uh um you know, I’m sure man it took, that was about 10 years ago for me, but again it was only during quarantine that i really did the hard work to focus on myself because uh after my last attempt,I was in two back-to-back uh exclusive monogamous relationships. I used that as a crutch. I still had some toxic habits that didn’t break back then, that I didn’t know I had back then. And it was only these last few years that I was actually able to break the cycle of those toxic habits that I learned growing up. So again, change and growth is non-linear. It could be a zigzag, things go back full circle for you to really learn some lessons for some things to click more to have that epiphany, right? To be more enlightened. But yeah, I just remember that might have been the third out of four times that I had to move back into my mom’s after that attempt, you know, because, okay, so I first moved out at 18. And dude, if I had gone to this industry at age 18, I definitely would not be alive today. No, not with those types of insecurities, not with all that trauma that was still heavy on me back then. If I had gone to the industry at age 18, I first moved out, I would not be here. So I’m glad I got into it in my late 20s. The life experience that I have, the maturity that I have. The level of hitters that I have now.

SW: Last time we sat down and spoke was over two years ago, how has Channy changed? How’s the business changed? What you thought it would be? Didn’t think all that.

CC: There’s a huge trial and error, a huge learning curve. But I think to stay in this game or to stay in this kind of line of work, I honestly think it’s not for the sheltered. It’s not for people who aren’t willing to grow, who aren’t generally passionate about these types of lifestyles. I think the real thing is,

I ask other people in this industry, other coworkers, how do you stay true to yourself in this industry and not let it eat you up, you know, in regards to our mental health? Because a lot of this is very stigmatizing, people can smear you for all sorts of things. But as long as you hold yourself accountable and you keep, you try to distinguish and keep the toxic people out of your life and out of your line of work have healthy solid boundaries, you will be able to last in this industry longer. But again, I’m trying to, I think because I’m one of those wholesome people or a new generation of people in this industry, where we’re to prove people that not all of us are shallow, not all of us are superficial, you know, so it’s a new generation in this industry. I’m really excited. We’re growing and we’re evolving and we’re progressing in a good way.

SW: Having said all that, has this journey been what you expected, what you didn’t expect? Were you doing everything you wanted to do? Were you maybe, I don’t wanna say pushed into doing some things you didn’t wanna do.

CC: Oh, you know what? It’s honestly a bit of all of that. I admit,I ‘m definitely in it a lot longer than I thought I would be. And I think certain things factors into. So work was definitely more elusive for me, especially when it comes to traveling and testing and COVID, you know, and those certain parameters. But I like learning more about myself and evolving and growing in this industry, you know? That I’m able, you know, like what we’re doing now, I’m able to help give advice and get some tips that I wish I had, you know? And it’s okay. If quarantine didn’t wake up people about how most 9 to 5 conventional jobs don’t usually help people and how we could have different forms of income. We could have passive income, you know, especially if you’re living in California, you probably end up having more than one hustle, you know, just to support the cost of living. I want to teach people, you know, I live how I preach it, you know, as long as you’re passionate about it, as long as it’s coming from the right place, and you’re not just going to work to a place that is slowly eating your soul inside. That’s when you should call it and try go on a different path. I think a lot of us have to get out of our comfort zones to really grow. And I think if you don’t get out of your comfort zone, you might be a bit too privileged and a bit too sheltered, you know? Not all of us could afford that, you know, have that type of luxury. SW: Well, you personally, were there things maybe you did early in your career that you maybe shouldn’t have done? Were there maybe sexual acts you maybe should have, in retrospect, would have waited a little longer to do? And would you have handled just the whole career thing differently? Or are you where you think you should be? Should you be a bigger star, I guess, for lack of a better term?

CC: I think that’s relative. That’s relative. I mean, a lot of that is on my to-do list and on my fuckit list. You know, I think with one project, one scene at a time, I’m able to try to plant positive seeds of hope, growth, and change. For some people that might not translate into being a bigger star, you know, I don’t do a lot of things just for clout, I don’t do a lot of things just for the hype and just for the likes, you know. And that’s how I take care of my mental health. I’m able to balance my time on social media and how to be a positive influencer and how I can really take care of my mental health and have time to myself. Again, I don’t have any regrets. There are lessons and something to teach me in everything, in all aspects, in all the scenes and projects I’ve been on. And most of them are things that I’ve crossed off my fuckit list, bucket list. Anyways, the only thing I really have a heartache for is again, being able to really reach, have my voice really reach more people in regards to healing our traumas, having more safety protocols, learning our healthy boundaries, cause a lot of certain issues and dynamics, certain toxic patterns could be broken. I think that’s how we could de-stigmatize our industry. You know, it’s the toxic people, who thrive on drugs and alcohol all the time, they’re the ones making this industry bad for everyone else. You know, most of us want to live healthy lives and have a safe space, you know, in a regulated setting to truly channel certain types of cravings and urges in a healthy way. So we don’t end up taking it out on other people in the real world, you know? That’s tied to our mental health. Don’t get me wrong, there are predators out there who generally get off on not having consent from people, you know, that type of violence. But that’s the thing, we need to try to keep one another in check on and hold ourselves accountable for. That segues into paperwork. So there’s a lot more paperwork and safety protocols in this industry now, and that’s the trade-off. Yeah, I admit, I’ve also been annoyed at the extra paperwork and how tedious it is to cross reference with IDs and documents. But if that’s the trade-off for more safety or more accountability and more tracing, I’m all for it, you know? I posted today on my Twitter. We do have a privilege to consensually do this type of work compared to people who are being human trafficked or sexually trafficked, you know? So let’s bring awareness to that. You know, there are layers to everything, you know? Not just at face value, so. Who thinks if I can speak freely? There’s positive feminists like me that help be a good voice and advocate for all that.

SW: What are your Social Media handles:

CC: Sure, just go to: https://linktr.ee/channycrossfire. For bookings, please contact Coxxx Models: coxxxmodels.com

SW: What is your Onlyfans?

CC: Yes,it’s www.onlyfans.com/channycrossfire

SW: Do you do custom work

CC: Rarely, only when I collaborate with other producers, especially for wrestling wrestling content, FEMDOM content. But it’s rare for me. I have to time it logistically.

SW: Craziest request you got for a custom.

CC: That’s that’s relative, uh, let’s see. Oh my god, is always the scat stuff. That… oof. That is a fine line for me that I rarely tiptoe. I’ve honestly only done that once, but because it was more on my terms, it was more manageable for me. But I’m gonna leave it at that.

SW: You mentioned a word that gets thrown around a lot now and that’s “collab”. What does collab mean to you?

CC: It’s a mix of collab and content trade. So collab could either mean it’s paid and you work to be creative with another producer or co-star. Whether it’s a photo shoot, a music video or a scene, you collaborate, you know, and that can be paid or unpaid. Mostly it is unpaid, and it mostly correlates to content trade, where you do have a bit more flexibility and freedom on being creative with your own ideas versus a mainstream producer who has their own ideas, which you mostly have to follow and usually don’t have input in. But with Collab and Content trade, you have more input. There’s more flexibility. There’s more adaptability. And you really personalize and customize how you want to portray yourself and how you want a certain scene to go. And it could be more aligned with your genuine kinks and genuine fetishes and genuine turn-ons, not just something that’s just semi-scripted or something you had to act out for a scene, or for a shoot.

SW: One of the issues in Las Vegas in January during the AEE Show was a lot of girls were saying that fans would walk up to them and basically say, “I have an OnlyFans account, I live in Kentucky, do you wanna collab with me?” And where do you kind of determine like who you collab with, who you don’t? Is it a numbers game? Is it somebody you’ve worked with? Is it what?

CC: Yeah, that’s tough. That’s a…There are definitely a lot of different factors. I believe in the philosophy of yin and yang, there’s a trade off for everything. There are pros and cons for everything. So again, with content trade, you have more flexibility, more room for creative ideas, but there is less vetting. There’s less mandatory industry standard testing. There’s less accountability because it is becoming more and more inclusive. You know, it’s becoming more streamlined, slowly becoming more mainstream. There are pros and cons to all that. I mean, it’s good that people are exploring another means to make extra money, you know, to pay some bills, you know, something that it could be good for introverts, that don’t like to interact with a lot of people outside of their home, more content and work from home more, depending on your lifestyle.  The trade off for that, you would have to have more safety protocols. That’s when you really need to advocate for yourself. There’s less people to filter that out, especially if you don’t have an agent to filter out the randos. But yeah, you really have to do your own research, be your own advocate, cross-reference, make sure your testing protocols are standard or high. It is the honor code, being within a two week timeframe. I personally don’t do collabs. I rarely go out on my way if it’s not a paid gig. One, because of logistics, all those out-of-pocket expenses, especially with testing. Also just, like I said, I’m naturally an introvert. So I rather conserve and save my energy for the more intense hardcore gigs that I’m usually booked for. I’d rather save my energy being at the gym that helps me take care of my mental health, which helps me keep a roof over my head, you know. So in regards to collabs and being really, you have the right to be picky and choosy.

SW: You as a person, has your perception of sex changed now that you’re in the sex business?

CC: Oh yeah, hell yeah. So as I cross more things off my Fuckit list, I’m learning more about myself, I’m evolving and I’m learning what I like and don’t like, so definitely. And that is one of the genuine, authentic aspects of me. You know, it’s also because I’m an athlete. So I definitely have a higher drive than most average people, and I might have more stamina and endurance than most people. That’s why I do what I do. And then me also being attracted to all genders, that’s like another double whammy. So if you learn all that about me, then you would understand, oh, okay, I’m not too surprised why she does this, why she’s into this or passionate about this.

SW: But sex itself, is sex still fun for you or is it a job?

CC:Luckily, because I’m passionate about this, this is something I live and breathe. And it’s part of my nature, being primal and being an athlete with a higher drive. I’ve definitely, majority of my interactions, I’m lucky and blessed and happy to say that majority of those experiences have been positive and have been fun. And again, it’s because of my genuine personality. It’s what I, it’s the energy I put into it. It’s me being genuine to myself and it’s my attitude and my head space going into it. Very rarely does it feel like work. And even then I’m able to communicate a bit more effectively and more positively, more healthy that certain producers or certain other co-workers the feedback if it feels otherwise, you know, then we’ll take a break, get back into it, you know. It’s really trial and error. And if you’re the type of person that doesn’t like change, that doesn’t like last-minute changes, this industry is not for you because you have to learn to adapt. You have to learn to be okay with improvising. You have to be okay that there will be flakes, there will be people that will not show up, that will ghost you, that doesn’t have positive communication, you know, and that doesn’t have good work ethics or healthy boundaries. So it’s really learning that and owning it, moving forward with it, and having these types of conversations about people like you in the industry so we can help continue to create those positive ripple effects in our community and this industry. Because it’s not just the industry. We’re a community. And that’s how we could get into this. A lot of people that get into this, it’s for the quick money. I totally understand that. A lot of us have to find ways to survive. A lot of us don’t have options like other people. But it’s about: how can I make this beneficial for me in a good way? How can I make this more sustainable? How can I make this a means to an end? Or how can I do good by others? You know, how do I still make this a good thing?

Thank you Channy, please vote for her,

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