For someone who prefers keeping a low profile, it’s hard to go anywhere and not see Aubrey Kate. Born in California, raised in New York NYC where she developed a passion for fashion, modeling and dancing. Before entering the adult industry, she worked as a mainstream model, with an impressive portfolio that includes ad campaigns for Mervins Guess Jeans, LL Bean, Quicksilver, and Nordstroms amongst others. More recently she’s launched Transcending by Aubrey Kate, an agency designed to help manage girls’ social media, OnlyFans and keep everything organized and more accessible to help them make money. Check out: https://www.instagram.com/transcendingagency/ for more info on that. She has an award winning blog: http://www.officialaubreykate.com/ She’s also become a brand ambassador for lubricant brand Gun Oil. For more information, visit GunOil. She’s also collaborated the Siren AI to launch the Aubrey AI.With the Aubrey AI, over 10,000 fans from more than 50 countries have sent and received over 100,000 messages through the service. New fans are joining daily through Siren AI Chat sirenai.chat/aubreykate. Follow Siren AI on X @sirenaiofficial and Instagram @sirenaiofficial.. Be sure to follow Aubrey on X @aubreykatexxx, Instagram @officialaubreykate, and on OnlyFans @aubreykate/c22.
Interview: Sherman Wayze
Editor: Gavyn Glass
Photos courtesy of Aubrey Kate
Sherman Wayze: You recently started a new company. Tell me about it.
Aubrey Kate: Transcending by Aubrey Kate. I started a trans agency that helps manage girls’ social media and OnlyFans to keep everything organized and more accessible to make money.
Sherman Wayze: Do you feel that your company needs to do something to help the next generation of performers?
Aubrey Kate: I want these girls to realize this doesn’t last forever. Looks don’t last forever. Friends don’t last forever. But you can, and I just want them to be smart with their money, you know, ’cause I wasn’t. And it’s been a big learning curve for me after being in New York and coming back to Vegas. Money comes and goes, and there’s a lot of money to be made in this industry. I just want them to be smart.
Sherman Wayze: Was that something you’ve seen from your work that people you’ve met should be better organized?
Aubrey Kate: I was kind of alone in my career. I never really had help from anybody. I’ve never had an agent or a manager or PR until recently. I said, why not create something to help steer the girls in the right direction? I see so many people try to use the girls incorrectly. So, I just wanted to step in and put in my two cents.
Sherman Wayze: Being a trans performer, how much different is that than being a mainstream adult performer?
Aubrey Kate: It’s very different from everything. The money is different. There’s how many porn studios? Probably a thousand. How many trans studios are there? Maybe 40, not even, maybe 20. I think that’s the thing too, that they see, oh, there’s all this money to be made, but they’re not gonna film you that many times. Even though I sold and kept winning and winning and winning, they can’t film me every single day. They have to have a variety of girls, so I think they just need to be smart. And also, I feel like a lot of these girls get used to where a company will see them young, and they’re like, oh my God, she looks like she’s 16 years old. We could make her 18. And if we film her like 20 times right now, we have all these that we can sit on. And so some of these girls do that. They’re like, oh my God, they love me. They’re filming me so much. No, honey, they’re using you because they’re never gonna film you again after this, you know, they want that one look, but once you start looking a little bit older, they don’t need you anymore. So I feel these girls need to be a little smarter. And that’s why I’m here to give them my two cents. I tell them not to listen to everything I say but just take everything and keep it in their mind.
Sherman Wayze: You’ve done very well. Everything seems like it’s going in the right direction.
Aubrey Kate: Initially, it was a lot harder, but I was fortunate. When I first started, I did two or three scenes daily for the first few weeks. I was very fortunate to get all of these offers. I kind of just said yes and trusted everything. I’ve had bad experiences. I guess it was a thing to keep my mouth shut on things that were not so positive. And I just kept them to myself or wrote them in my journal and didn’t blast certain companies or people on Twitter or Instagram. I think I became successful just because I kept my mouth shut, learned that lesson, and never repeated it. Where I feel like some of these girls will go to a company, they treat them badly, and they shit talk them and then forget about it, and they go work with other companies, and then a few years, the same company will ask them to do it, and then it happens all over again. So I think I kept my mouth shut and learned from the past and the mistakes to never do that again.
Sherman Wayze: Was that the one thing you think helped get you to the point you’re at?
Aubrey Kate: I’ve always had a strong work ethic. Before entering this industry, I had a traditional modeling career. I was with Wilhelmina Models and LA Models. I learned from a young age, being like three or four years old, that you always have to be on time. And just because you’re the star in the scene, you might not be the only star in the scene, and it’s not always about you. I feel like certain people turn into divas, or they see themselves getting popular, and they expect certain things. I feel like I’ve always been down to earth. I think that’s why I succeeded: I was always on time or early and prepared. If they said to bring three outfits, I probably brought ten outfits. I took it very seriously, you know, where some girls get in it for the money. I’m not saying I didn’t get into it for the money, but I saw that it had to be a lot of hard work to get where I was.
Sherman Wayze: Did your parents instill the work ethic in you?
Aubrey Kate: My mom and dad had me in high school. So they were very young, and my mom showed me that I could do whatever I wanted. My mom started as a secretary at this huge corporation. She worked her butt off from being a secretary in the front of the office, answering phones, greeting people that walked through the front door to now she’s a CFO of this major corporation. It just shows if you put in the effort and you are dedicated and you love what you’re doing, that you’ll succeed.
Sherman Wayze: Some girls in the business get so lost in their persona that they forget who the real person is. Have you ever had that problem?
Aubrey Kate: I had that problem. I was in a relationship with somebody for almost six years, and he kind of abused Aubrey in a certain aspect. He would see the money that she would pull in and that she would always be booked. So it drove me into working and working and working. I would always get into these modes when I was younger, where I would put myself in this facade, and when I came home, I would still be in this Aubrey character, and I wouldn’t be like my usual self. So, that ruined a lot of relationships in the past. I’m trying to separate Aubrey from the real me. It gets hard at times because sometimes you’re like, well, it is me. Like, you kind of sound like a psycho, you know? You’re like. So I don’t know. I’ve learned how to like to turn Aubrey off, but it’s difficult to do sometimes.
Sherman Wayze: Adult entertainment aside. How much different are you than the Aubrey character? Maybe now as opposed to earlier.
Aubrey Kate: We’re very similar but very different. Um, I love all the nice things. I love fashion. I love shopping. But the different thing is that I hate attention in my personal life. I don’t like people coming up to me when I’m alone. I have guys come up to me just by the way I look, and they like to say that I’m so pretty, but like I’m afraid to talk because I feel like sometimes my voice outs me as being trans, and I just get scared that I’m gonna say thank you and then they’re just literally gonna be like, oh. So, I just generally get scared. So a lot of people think I’m a bitch because I don’t reply. After all, I’m scared. So I get called a bitch a lot, but I’m very shy. And a lot of people don’t realize that when Aubrey is out, and the camera’s on, I will literally do anything and everything just because it’s on camera. I think I just like that tension. But in real life, I’m very shy. I’m a homebody. I don’t like going out typically. I’m home with my two dogs. But I would say the only thing I have in common with Aubrey is shopping and nice things. But I worked my butt off to get everything that I have.
Sherman Wayze: When you got into the adult business, was there ever a thought in your mind that you’re gonna take this Aubrey character and show everybody who always bullied you and become a big star?
Aubrey Kate: I didn’t think it would be anything like that. I was teased literally since kindergarten. I was getting called gay and faggot, and I didn’t even know what any of that meant. And then I was sexually abused, in first grade. The only friends I had were in dance. But then, around seventh grade, in dance, they started calling me gay. I just wanted to die. I had no friends. I didn’t have my mom, and I didn’t have my dad. My grandma and grandpa were a little bit older. I was never allowed to go outside when I came home from school. I had to stay at home. I was very sheltered. I’ve never wanted to be famous; I would rather be rich than famous. I didn’t think that I was gonna blow up the way I was going to do it. I thought I was going to come in, and I was gonna do porn for a couple of years. I thought I was gonna make a whole bunch of money, and I thought I would put money aside and retire from that. That was just not the case. I didn’t realize that in porn, you don’t make that much, especially by studio work. You’re not making that much, especially when I first started. I was making $1,200 a scene, which is a decent rate. I think it’s generally around $800 for hardcore. I was spending probably an easy $800 to $2,500 per outfit I wore in each movie. Whether making $800 or $2,000, I was spending it all on how I looked. I was investing in myself at a very early point in my career, and I just wanted to look good rather than make money. Luckily, that worked. It does not work for everybody, but I’m very fortunate that investing in myself, my image, and how I presented myself led me to where I am now. I have the most ecstatic fans who will send me $1,000 to buy something pretty.
Sherman Wayze: Do you think the timing helped? Trans content has always been a popular niche, but it seems that around 2013, it became increasingly more acceptable, agree or disagree?
Aubrey Kate: There was a lot of stigma when I first joined. And it’s still there a bit, but it’s less so today. When I first joined, they were telling me to bring these outfits, but then I would show up, and it would be like, oh, there’s no line, it’s gonzo, and it’s called Tranny Prostitutes Number whatever. I think I did that three times. And there were all these derogatory names. I would see all these girls, and I would be like, “This is not the porn that I watched.” My grandpa had a huge stack of Penthouse and Hustler and VHS pornos. And when they would leave, I would watch them. Porn was so glamorous. It was pearls, and their hair and makeup were done. It was so beautiful. So when I was starting it was like, “This is not anything like when I saw,” and I want to bring that back. I want to be the rich, pretty girl who wears all the nice stuff. When I started doing that, I started catching people’s attention. They were like, wait, she looks pretty. It’s not a gimmick, and it’s not supposed to be funny. Let’s watch this and see what the fuck is going on. It was like, wow, she’s beautiful. I want to jack off to her. I feel like that is something I had in my head where I wanted to be. Oh, this is tranny porn. I wanted it to be, oh wow, she’s hot, you know, I just wanted to change that, which I feel like I had a little bit to do with that because after that, other companies that have never done trans porn before, they were like, wow, this is pretty. And I also pushed myself to write companies like Wicked, where I was in their first trans scene with Domino and Venus Lux. And they asked me, who do you want us to film? We want it to be beautiful and legendary. After that, AVN Magazine made me their first trans cover model. I feel like it was kind of like baby steps to get where I was, but I was always persistent. I wouldn’t say I was pushy, but I was persistent. If I wanted something, I would try my absolute best to get it.
Sherman Wayze: Do you feel mainstream adult has embraced trans? Or do you still think it’s considered to be a niche?
Aubrey Kate: I would say that it’s getting there, but it’s not quite there. I feel like they dabble their toes in it when they want to, but I wouldn’t say it’s like a steady thing. Brazzers, for example, I think, has shot like four or five trans girls, but they haven’t filmed any new girls in two or three years. Or like Deeper with Kaden Kross, I filmed with them. I’m not sure if there is any other trans film with their company, but I just feel like they have little snippets and guest appearances, but they don’t have a full-on trans label. It’d be nice if Vixen would come out with a trans label. I know Brazzers has Trans Angels, but they market it so differently that it’d be nice if Brazzers had just a Brazzers trans label.
Sherman Wayze: Adult Time seems to do a lot.
Aubrey Kate: Adult Time does. I’ve only worked with them a couple of times.
Sherman Wayze: Trans material has always been popular, though. Why do you think that is?
Aubrey Kate: I think it’s always been popular because It’s almost something that doesn’t exist. You know, it’s almost like a unicorn or science fiction where you get the top of a girl that you like, but then you get like a massive penis, and you can look at it as almost like whatever like there are different things that you’re looking at. I kind of feel like it’s getting more popular because the girls are putting more effort and they are prettier, and every generation of these girls are getting prettier and prettier and prettier. And in that case, it’s just like, if you see a pretty trans girl with a cis girl, it’s still lesbian porn, but you’re still getting that penetration and pleasure from both of them rather than sticking a toy and sharing a toy and faking these expressions. Trans porn is getting better, and they are taking it a little bit more seriously filming it now, so I think it will just get bigger and bigger.
Sherman Wayze: Was there an award, a project, or something you felt established yourself in the business?
Aubrey Kate: I won the Fan Choice Award in my third year. I think that was probably my most special award. Because I wasn’t expecting it. Two years prior, I was expecting to win something. I was nominated for my first year at the Trans Erotica Awards. Jenna Jameson was there, and I was presenting an award. I was up for five awards and was like, oh, I’m going to win something. And I didn’t win anything. I didn’t win anything the next year. And then when I won Fan Choice, it was just like, how cool is this? Like it’s fan voting , all these people have to vote for me to win. Right after I won that, that’s like kind of when everything started going. I won that, and then the next year, it was AVN Performer of the Year and then Performer of the Year again, winning every single show back to back.
Sherman Wayze: Growing up, did you have a favorite school subject?
Aubrey Kate: I hated school so much that I couldn’t focus. I definitely had ADD, and I couldn’t focus on anything, but also, people were so mean and calling me names in class. If I got chosen to read aloud, people would just laugh. I just tried to go in the corner and vanish. So I don’t think I could enjoy school the way I should have. I wasn’t able to learn because I was so distracted trying not to be seen that I was not able to focus. In high school, I was on the hip-hop dance team and the cheer squad. So those were my favorite times of the day. But even then, the people on cheer were not nice to me. I feel like now you see all these trans girls that transition in high school and are trans on their high school’s cheer team or dance team or whatever. And for me, that was just not the case. That was not accepted at my school. I would say there were only maybe two gay kids in the entire school, not including me. It was a huge school. There were about 5,000 people in this high school. And it was just tolerated or accepted. So even going to dance and like cheer, it was like, I was having fun in the class, but like going, walking out of class or walking into the class, I was just like heavily bullied.
Sherman Wayze: Were you dancing before modeling?
Aubrey Kate: My mom, my grandma, my aunts, we’re all gymnasts. My mom worked at a gymnastics academy while she was a secretary, just cause she wasn’t making much money at that time. So that was the only time I would see my mom for like an hour or two a day, was when she would pick me up, take me to the gymnastics, and then she would be a coach while I was there. So I started gymnastics and dance before I could walk and talk. I was just always there. I became good at both gymnastics and dance and my mom was like, you have to pick one. They’re too expensive. So I picked to dance.
Sherman Wayze: And dancing, did you enjoy the attention you got from dancing? Or did you enjoy just the freedom?
Aubrey Kate: I just love to dance so much that I was able to perform. I did not like talking or being on stage or seeing people see me. I just loved to perform. And when I was getting good, they were putting me in theater acts and tumbling in little theater shows as just appearances. And then, obviously, in theater, the lights are so bright, and the room is so dark that you can’t see people. I kind of feel like going through that and being in theater kind of helped me get over my fear. Doing that helped me get over blocking everybody out on set, just focusing on the camera and making love to the camera as the only person in the room.
Sherman Wayze: How did you get into modeling?
Aubrey Kate: It was during a concert. I was super, super young, and my aunt went to a concert. I don’t know if it was like NSYNC or something like that. My aunt was not supposed to take me, but she had tickets with her friends and was like, well, I’m going. So I went, and they had a Wilhelmina booth there. I guess there were a few scouts, and they came up to my aunt, and they were like, are you the mother? They talked to her and gave her a card. Then my aunt drove me to LA a week or two later, and I had my first shoot. They signed me up and went with that. I was with them until fourth or fifth grade. Then Wilhelmina shut down their children’s junior department. Then I got signed with LA Models.
Sherman Wayze: Have you done major ad campaigns with them?
Aubrey Kate: I did a lot for Mervins when Mervins was around. Guess Jeans, LL Bean, Quicksilver, and Nordstroms.
Sherman Wayze: You were shy growing up and bullied. Were you surprised when someone asked you to model?
Aubrey Kate: It was never the adults bullying me. It was always younger kids and kids my age or a little older, so I started loving modeling because it got me out of school. I didn’t have to go to school. I was doing independent study half the time, and they just gave me the packet, which I’ll turn in at the end of the week. It was just all adults who were so nice to me because I was a talent. It felt like a fantasy or an escape. I loved modeling so much.
Sherman Wayze: Had any of the perspectives changed from some of the kids who bullied you in school now because they start seeing you in ads and seeing you in different things?
Aubrey Kate: I got made fun of even more. It didn’t make me cool that I was in magazines at all. I remember it was like an English class where we had to bring something in that we do that a lot of people didn’t know. I brought my portfolio, and it got passed around, and some people took photos of it. Some people drew on my face, and some people wrote mean things on it, which kind of ruined my whole portfolio.
Sherman Wayze: You began transitioning at 17. Was there a moment in your life when you decided this was what you wanted to do?
Aubrey Kate: I always knew. My dad lived in Vegas, and I lived in California. I would see him maybe once or twice a year. My mom was kind of never there either, but when I would see her, she would put me in like baggy clothes to mask my figure. I would say 17 was my full transition because I didn’t have my mom or my grandpa or any of them to tell me no. I remember the first time I came over to my grandparents’ house, I was like, in a hoochie outfit, a mini dress with this wig on. I don’t know, it was, after that, the wig never came off. I just had a wig until my hair was growing. I got my boobs when I was 21. But yeah, I would say 17,. I was working at a tanning salon for a little bit, right before porn. I was at a corporate tanning salon and trying to dress up there, but I got fired for it. I got fired for wearing makeup. That’s when I got my boob job, and I said, fuck it. Like, I won’t let anybody tell me how to live. But it was hard because I was on my own for such a young age that being trans and dressing up, nobody wanted to hire me or take me seriously. The only work for that was sex work. I was never really into being a prostitute, not that there’s anything against that. And yes, I have done that. It just was not for me. I had to be my boy self in the day to make money, and then I could turn into myself at night.
Sherman Wayze: Is the transition process for you harder physically or psychologically?
Aubrey Kate: I would say physically. Psychologically, I always knew I was a girl. I always knew this was how I was. I don’t think I’ve changed. I think if you look at pictures of me since I was like three or four, I was always very flamboyant and over the top and very extra. I would say physically, it’s a little bit harder because not only is it hard to be a girl and wake up and do your hair and makeup and all that stuff, but we have an extra layer. We have to make sure that like, we don’t have any facial hair or body hair. And it does make it a little bit harder physically, especially if you’re not on hormones. And that’s where the psychological aspect kicks in is that when you are on hormones, it’s not as easy for you to get your penis hard. And that’s kind of the whole point of this industry is to see a hot girl with a functional penis.
Sherman Wayze: How long is it after you finish the process of becoming an adult?
Aubrey Kate: I kind of just went for it. I went right after I transitioned, and I jumped into adult that first year with my boob job. So I started at 21, where I was just webcamming, and then I went into porn, but I kind of went into adult because that was my only choice. I was in a dance show before I transitioned, and that’s when I started taking hormones, but my boobs started growing a little bit, and I was like the male lead of the Irish dance show where they were like, no, like you can’t do this. So I got fired from that. And after that, I was just like, nobody would hire me. So adult was kind of the only thing that I had left.
Sherman Wayze: For your webcam shows, were you doing solos? Were you working with anybody else?
Aubrey Kate: I was dating somebody at that time, and I was escorting. He was on StreamMate and we would do shows together, but most of the time, it was just solos. And then I was doing StreamMate so much that somebody from Kink.com was on there. They were just like, hey, we would love for you to film for Kink.com.
Sherman Wayze: So they contacted you while you were web camming. Do you immediately say yes, and there was only time?
Aubrey Kate: I said no, probably three or four times. And it was Miss Berlin. She hit me up a lot. And I kept saying, no, no, no. Then we broke up, and I said, you know what, let’s do it.
Sherman Wayze: Why say no?
Aubrey Kate: I think it was just like a lot of things. What am I gonna tell my parents? You know, like doing escorting or whatever. Yes, it’s bad for your parents to see that, but also like, it’ll go away. Whereas porn, once it’s up there, it’s up there forever. I didn’t know how to tell my family, and they’ve always supported me, and I didn’t want to piss them off or make them feel disrespected. Luckily, they were happy and on board with it.
Sherman Wayze: Prior to getting into the business, had you had any preconceived notions about the adult entertainment industry?
Aubrey Kate: I didn’t know anything about it at all. All I knew was that I wanted to be like a pretty girl from one of my grandpa’s magazines. It was very weird, but because I was molested at such a young age, it was very hard for me to have sex off and on camera. It was just very traumatizing for me mentally. So I know, like in a lot of my first scenes, I thought I was boring. I never thought I was gonna last, but I think people can see that I was pushing away, and for some reason, that’s hot to them, you know? Everything I’ve done on camera has been very real and natural. I was very inexperienced when I started.
Sherman Wayze: The Kink.com, those are more BDSM type of things?
Aubrey Kate: There was sex in it. I was a top. That was one of the reasons why I said yes. I don’t have to have it in my ass. I was like, okay, like, let’s do that. Then, they incorporated a country western theme. So it’s kind of just a fun day. That was one of my first scenes. After that, I was like, if this is how porn is gonna be like, hell yeah. I feel like a movie star. This is so much fun, but it definitely was not like that all the time.
Sherman Wayze: After that, you start shooting for Joey Silvera. Do you shoot for Grooby? Who do you shoot for?
Aubrey Kate: Yeah. So, in my very first week, I think I did three for Venus Lux. I did three for SMC and two or three for She-Male Strokers. I think they changed their name, but yeah, I did like all those in my first week. It wasn’t for Evil Angel until my second or third month, and I didn’t know it was bareback. Nobody told me this and I drove all the way to LA and went on set, and the guy’s sticking in. I was like, wait, where’s the condom? And they’re like, this is Evil Angel. We don’t use condoms.
Sherman Wayze: As a performer, producer, and director, how does AI affect you, your business, and everything else?
Aubrey Kate: I just started my own AI. We’ve been working on that, and I am working with a team, asking it questions, trying to break it, and doing all that. I really like mine. I think it’s really cool only because the fans can talk to me and have a sexual experience, whether it’s sexting, hearing my voice, or creating pictures. I think it’s almost like a fun fantasy where they can explore me at a whole other level. I don’t think it’s really affecting me because if people want to watch my videos and they want the real thing, they will come watch it. But they also have this awesome AI version of me that can be anything they want. And if they want to talk to me and I’m sleeping, they can talk to a different version of me. I think it’s a cool and fun new experience to have a conversation or a sexual erotic experience with me.
Sherman Wayze: To be successful on all the various platforms, formats, do you think it’s more about personality, or do people come to watch you get boned or see you boning somebody?
Aubrey Kate: You know what, they see me doing everything under the sun on the internet. So they kind of want to know how I am in real life and the real version of me. They wanna see me do stuff without makeup or in the shower or more like raw footage of me not all glammed up, which I hated in the beginning because I’m just like, no, that’s not my character. But they just like, they just wanna see like a real true person. And I think that’s why I’ve been so successful.
Sherman Wayze: Is there still a certain aspect of your life that you keep to yourself?
Aubrey Kate: Everybody has the right to do whatever they want. I feel like some people overshare. I think I’ve been at that point too. I think also being in this industry, drugs and alcohol can also be a big issue. I’m fortunate that I have stayed away from that, but being in the industry, I’ve been with a lot of friends or ex-boyfriends in the industry who are just so hooked on drugs.
Sherman Wayze: We recently had several people pass away due to various things. In your experience, does this industry put that much pressure on you?
Aubrey Kate: I would say there are so many eating disorders and so many drugs to make you not hungry and to stay looking thin and pretty that I would say it’s kind of a big problem, you know? And then these directors want you to be a certain role, and it’s almost like Hollywood, right, where they make you drop all this weight for a scene. Some people don’t realize that some people are spending a hundred thousand dollars making a porn movie, you know, like Wicked Pictures and their crazy budgets. And so they want you to fit into this costume that they make six months before you even try it. If you don’t fit in it, you better do something. I would say there’s a lot of bad stuff in this industry, but it’s kind of an angry industry.
Sherman Wayze: Do you personally spend a lot of time on social media? Does it affect you at that point? Or have you developed such a thick skin?
Aubrey Kate: Being teased and bullied my whole life, I have thick skin now. Some things get to me, but I try not to let it affect me. I try not to read any of the comments. When you’re trying to run a company, you wanna see what’s going on and try to get better. I’ve never watched any of my movies. I used to always read the comments, or I’d watch the trailers over and over again, but I would never watch the full movie, and I don’t read the comments anymore because people can just be so fucking mean. There are some nice ones, but I can’t read the comments anymore.
Sherman Wayze: What is it like when you find that you’ve genuinely inspired someone in a positive way?
Aubrey Kate: I feel like it’s been like a lot of trans women, like the older trans women that have transitioned where I meet, and they’re like, oh my gosh, you helped me transition. I feel like that is pretty inspiring. I know it’s very hard to be your true self, especially someone like me where society is very against it. All guys wanna fuck you, but most of them just don’t want anybody to know. They want you to be a secret, so It’s very hard, but it’s inspiring and nice to see that girls look up to me. I’ve never thought I’d be somebody to look up to.
Sherman Wayze: On your OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/aubreykate, do you do custom work?
Aubrey Kate: That’s probably my number one selling area: customs. I charge $100 a minute, and I try to do five-minute minimums.
Sherman Wayze: Craziest request you got for a custom?
Aubrey Kate: There are some crazy ones that I wasn’t allowed to do just because it broke the policy of OnlyFans, but a lot of guys want like scat play. I don’t know, I’m not into that.
Sherman Wayze: And custom work aside, when you shoot stuff for platforms like OnlyFans or Fansly. Do you shoot stuff you wanna shoot or stuff you think will sell?
Aubrey Kate: I shoot things that I wanna shoot. I think shooting stuff that I wanna shoot sells much better because they see me enjoying it.
Sherman Wayze: Do your fans prefer the POV type of stuff? Do they want the glam stuff?
Aubrey Kate: I think they love both. They love the glam, and then they love the natural me, just waking up in bed, getting face fucked by whoever’s next to me. They kind of like it all. I think I’ve been very versatile with my appearance where I can be glam, but also be sporty, but still look glam sporty if that makes sense. No matter what I’m doing, I’ll always look high-end.
Sherman Wayze: Do you still enjoy sex, or is it just a career?
Aubrey Kate: I’ve never really enjoyed anal sex, whether it was for work or pleasure. I love sucking dick. I need to suck dick all day, every day. That’s what makes me cum. Now I like rim jobs more. I love eating ass. So I don’t know. I don’t need to get fucked every day, but I like need to suck a dick or like eat a butt every day.
Sherman Wayze: For you, what’s the secret to a good BJ?
Aubrey Kate: Definitely a lot of spit. I’ve always been a spitter, and I always have so much. My secret to that is lemons. I would bring a lemon, cut it in half, and just like eating it, it produces so much saliva. So that was my secret, but there’s so much spit. And then I would do the twisty double hand if they’re big enough.
Sherman Wayze: When you have a man’s cock in your mouth, do you feel a sense of power over them?
Aubrey Kate: Sometimes, even half the time, I love to lie down on my back, being lazy, and they’re on top of me, where it almost looks like they’re dominating me. But then I just look up, and I can see a dick in my mouth and like their face in so much pleasure. I’m like, oh yeah, I’m doing that to them.
Sherman Wayze: Have you ever used your abilities to get something you wanted?
Aubrey Kate: Oh, definitely. I did that on the plane once. I was sitting next to this guy in first class. We were landing somewhere, and he said, ” oh, I have a limo, and I’m going into the city. I was like, oh, I need a ride. So I was like, I’ll blow you if you let me go in the limo. I had a blanket, and I went under, and I was blowing him on the flight, and the flight attendant tapped me, and she’s like, no.
Sherman Wayze: When you’re not doing interviews like this, what do you like to do?
Aubrey Kate: I love to chill with my dogs, spending as much time with them as possible. Other than that, I love decorating.
Sherman Wayze: Do you still have a celebrity crush on Matt Damon?
Aubrey Kate: You know what, I do. He’s hot. I like his old, I like him younger, for sure.
Sherman Wayze: Would you shoot a celebrity sex tape with him if you could?
Aubrey Kate: 100%.
Sherman Wayze: What could he do to you?
Aubrey Kate: He can kill me. He could do anything he wanted.
Sherman Wayze: What would you do to him?
Aubrey Kate: Ooh, I would suck his dick and eat his butt. And then I’d probably tie him up and ride him.
Sherman Wayze: At this point in your career, is there anything specifically that surprises you about this journey up to this point in your life?
Aubrey Kate: Probably where the fuck the time all went. Like what? I don’t think I’ve ever been consistent. As I said, I switched schools every single year. I’ve never really had friends to dance. I’ve never really had anything that has ever lasted this long. Never really had family, never had a relationship that long. So to have a career that has outlasted anything in my life has just been such a blessing. It’s not very often you can hear someone say, what do you do? I’m a porn star, how long? I’ve been in it for 11 years. That just is very hard to come by these days. It’s just I feel like porn and only fans have become such a fad, and even trans, where I’m just like, are you trans? Are you just doing it for the attention? Where I’ve seen a couple of girls come in with no boobs, nothing. They get boobs on camera, go through the whole thing. And then they’re like, this isn’t me. Get their boobs removed, step away from porn. Like… Porn is a very hard journey. Being trans is a very hard journey. Being a trans porn star is a very rough, hard journey. So I’m just very lucky, that is all I can say.
Sherman Wayze: What do you think your secret to longevity is?
Aubrey Kate: I think being humble, being very on time, being very professional, and not taking everything seriously. At the end of the day, this is work, right? So we’re here to work. You’re gonna have people. You’re gonna have bad days on set. You’re gonna have people you don’t get along with. You’re gonna have all these things. But I would rather have that day over going to work at McDonald’s or at some office job where I will be just as miserable. So it’s just like everybody has a rough, bad day. Don’t turn that into this life sucks. You know, you just have to take it one day at a time.
Sherman Way: Thank you Aubrey, please check out all her platforms,
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