Kendra Cole is not your typical Porn star. Besides being a top-notch performer with an insatiable appetite for sex, She’s been known to bend her body is ways some would consider impossible, one of her favorite niches is facials, and unlike a lot of performers around today, she actually A: likes Sex and B: loves being in the industry.
She has maintained a rabid fan base, considered by many fellow performers to be a true Throat Goat and yet all of this barely scratches the surface of who she is, what she’s about, what drives her, why she’s been able to sustain such a longer career and what’s next. And please be sure to follow her dog on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moreodieplease/ Read on
Interview: Sherman Way
Editor: Ralph Greco Jr.
All Photos courtesy of Kendra Cole /Adult Time
bookings: www.atmla.com
SW: Sherman Way
KC: Kendra Cole
SW: You just mentioned you did your first gang bang recently. What was that like?
KC: It was very fun. It was for adult time.
It’s called Accidental Gang Bang. I am walking around the house and I forgot to put panties on, and I got a bunch of construction workers and the classic up on a ladder, and my ass and vagina is hanging out, but I don’t feel the wind. It was really fun.
SW: Was there a reason you waited this long to do it or was that on your bucket list to do? You just never got around to it?
KC: I’ve been begging my agent to pitch a gangbang to some of the bigger teams because I wanted it to be a big deal. I had a couple of smaller offers, but I also wasn’t ready to quite do what they wanted, which was 10 guys. They didn’t think I was ready for that. Then there’s a lot of standing around, and I just feel bad for the guys. I only have three holes, two hands. I can maybe get five, six at a time, and then there’s four that are just standing there. I was also trying to hold out until my body was ready firstly because when I did my first anal scene, I realized my body wasn’t really ready for it, and it just wouldn’t soften up. It was tight the whole time. So I wanted to make sure my body was ready. And I don’t really do these things in private. I never DP’d or had two guys in private, ever. I do all that adventurous stuff in porn where it’s like safe zone, so. I wanted it to be a kind of showcase. It was the first time I ever DP’d. I was a little nervous, but it was easy-peasy. I just did my first actual DP scene for Johnny Darko this week.
SW: Performances aside, does it turn you on knowing people will jack off and watch you have sex?
KC: Yeah. Performing makes me horny in itself. Even if I’m nervous about a dialogue or just nervous about something, as soon as I press record, the nervous goes away, and I just start feeling confident and performing my best and either ignore the camera completely or stare directly into it and give it my big brown eye contact.
SW: Is that almost kicking in the Kendra character or is there such a thing as a Kendra character?
KC: I think Kendra is yeah. Kendra is a little separate, not much. But I guess in my private life, I don’t do a lot of the crazy stuff unless I was with other porn performers doing that maybe at a porn party, but with civilians and strangers. I don’t even like bondage because I feel like every civilian, as soon as they tie you up, the first thing they do is tickle you. And when you say, “Stop,” they don’t. And that doesn’t happen in porn. If I say, “Stop,” You stop, They ask if I’m okay, water, all the things. I like experimenting and doing it all informed.
SW: Is it difficult for you to have a relationship with a civilian? It depends. I’ve only had like five boyfriends. People have never wanted to just settle down and date me. They just want to play with me while they’re looking for another girlfriend. So that’s kind of also why I started doing porn. I was like, “If I’m not going to settle down here, then let me go have fun there.”
SW: Are they expecting wild porn sex?
KC: It can be hit or miss. One of my exes started getting upset that he would watch a scene, and then he would come, and that would mess with his brain. So that would make him upset that he got off to it, even though he didn’t want to. Then he would start picking apart things that I said word for word in the scene. And he would be like, “Oh, you said this today or yesterday. How is it better?” And I’m like, “I said that to you at first,” or, “I heard this girl say it, and it sounded sexy.” I take from the world. If I said it on set or heard it on set, of course, I want to bring it home. That’s how people grow. You see outside stuff and you try it inside. But yeah, I don’t know. We ended up not working out.
SW: Do any of these guys ever try and impress you because they know you’re in the adult business?
KC: One was starting to trick himself, his brain would start to try things that he saw that he thought that I would think would be hot. And I’d be like, “This isn’t working. This is not you. And it’s not good foreplay for us.” And then he’d get mad if it didn’t work or something. It just became too much. He’s looking at what is being said and taking it to heart rather than trust that I do have a sexual connection with him. We had so much sex all the time. And his mother is complaining that I’m screaming and the whole house can hear me. So him convincing himself that we weren’t good in bed was just, I couldn’t argue it out of him. And I shouldn’t have to keep convincing him.
SW: The first time you saw adult material or you watched adult material, did the thought ever cross your mind that, I could do that? SW: No. Not until my friend told me that she was taking nude photos for these people and then referred me to them. And then they told me about porn. And he tried to scare me away from it, saying stuff like, “You’re going to wind up on drugs and lose all your stuff.” And all of those things happened to one of the girls he was referring to. But besides that part, the exploration and almost a little bit less control was very appealing to me because I’m always a very independent, in-control person. I was working at McDonald’s and waitressing when I was 16, even though my dad told me not to. He was like, “Stay home. You don’t need to work. You’re 16.” And I was like, “No. I’m going to move out right away.”
SW: In high school and stuff, had you sent your boyfriends and dirty pictures or naughty pictures?
KC: No. I don’t think so. Don’t quote me. But I was actually really insecure back then. I was afraid to take my bra off because I had small boobs, but I think my boobs were bigger then. I really just became more comfortable being naked. It depends because I’m not comfortable when I’m around my family, I wear different clothes, or I’ll wear maybe a bra versus I won’t around strangers or people. But I’m like, “My dad doesn’t need to see my boobs.”
SW: You’re from Wisconsin originally, correct?
KC: Yeah. I was this tall, skinny girl with long legs. So even anything I wore was technically considered slutty. Back then, everybody would call any skinny girl who wore shorts a slut. I didn’t have sex until I was 16, and I dated that guy for a year, and he kept leaving me for freshmen who didn’t know how small his dick was. The school cop threatened to have him arrested for soliciting minors because after he graduated, he kept coming back to see freshmen in the morning before school.
SW: In High school, did you go to your prom?
KC: Oh, I did, but it was terrible. The guy was the guy with a small penis who kept breaking up with me for freshmen who didn’t sleep with him anyway. He asked me with pizza, but it wasn’t a cooked pizza. It was four raw pizzas with only the dough that was cooked and then raw pepperoni on it that said PROM, question mark. And I’m like, “Why couldn’t you eat this pizza?” And he didn’t want to go. His mom made him ask me. He made me cry when we were getting ready, and his mom fucking yelled at him. Then he took me to a pizza place in my white dress, which was because he worked there. This is the same man who would always bring me the carnations that his boss told him to throw out because they were dying on the table.
SW: But he was the boy that ended up taking your virginity?
KC: Yeah. It was dumb. He was a football player, but he wasn’t allowed to play because it was too short.
SW: But when you went all the way the first time, was it a peer pressure thing or your girlfriends had already did it?
KC: No. He definitely pressured me. His friend was in the other room, and it lasted like two minutes. And then his mom came home, and his friend said, “Your mom’s home.” And then he, I think, tapped me on the leg and said, “You’re not a virgin anymore.” I was like, “Awesome.” And then I told my friend, Melissa, and she yelled at me. She was so disappointed, even though she wasn’t a virgin. But then I had sex with guy at a party who had like a 9 to 12-inch penis. It was huge. So I went from this, to this, and that’s when my brain was like, “The world has better options for me.” And then I started sleeping with another popular hot guy. But the first one was like, “You know, we’re just fucking, right? We’re not dating.” And I was like, “Yeah, I know.” And that’s how that pattern started. And then people wanted me to come over and give them the good head, well, one person, I shouldn’t say people. And then I was just sick of people not wanting to date me. So I started moving and doing the LA thing eventually.
SW: Were you a hit and run type of girl where you saw the dude, you thought he was really hot, and you just wanted to have fun with him and get rid of him?
KC: That’s what they would do with me. But no, like they would call me late at night, and I would come over. And then I would stay at one’s house and then leave early or whatever. And then the other one, he would let me stay, but it was in his grandma’s basement. He wouldn’t even take me to the bed, and he’d be on the couch, and I didn’t want to sleep smashed on the couch with a six-foot guy. So I’m like, “I’m going to leave.” I got in the habit of just leaving after.
SW: Was that just straight sex, or was there BJ and him going down on you before, etc? KC: I think it was mostly blowjobs and sex. I didn’t really like being gone down on. And I still don’t love it in the beginning. I need to be like really horny, then I love it. But if I’m not horny yet and the foreplay isn’t there, I’d rather do you and then you do me later. But then they really want to because it makes them horny, so then I just let them. It’s a give or take. And then sometimes they make me really horny, or sometimes I’ll just be like, “Let me get hornier and try again.”
SW: Do you ever have a sense of power when you’re giving a guy a blowjob?
KC: I don’t know if it’s power over, but yes, in a way. I feel a type of power over when I’m making you shake and you’re just like moaning uncontrollably. I hate it when guys hold in their sounds. I’m like, “I don’t know if I’m doing the things you like if you’re just silently staring at me or looking away. Like I need feedback.”
SW: Prior to going all the way, had you done BJ’s and stuff before that, or did you do that after?
KC: I like giving head first for a very long time. Sometimes I’m almost insulted when they’re like, “Come here. Let me fuck you.” I’m like, “But am I not doing this justice?” It’s a masterpiece.
SW: Do you consider yourself good at BJ’s. Are you a throat goat?
KC: Yes and It depends because if they’re skinnier, no matter how long, I can put it down. But if they’re fatter, I can’t get it down my tiny little throat. But I like to put the head to the back of my throat. And I’ll just keep rubbing it around the back of my throat. So sometimes you’ll see me going like this, and I’m not shaking my head like, “No, I’m just rubbing your cock in my throat.”
SW: For you, what’s the secret to a good BJ? KC: Oh, lots of spit. Use your hands too sometimes. Depends on what you’re doing. Oftentimes, sometimes my arms, when I’m playing with the balls, get tired or when I’m sucking on the balls, my arms will get tired on the cock, so I’ll let them down, but they still want to play with the cock, and they got to participate a little. So they’ll grab their cock, or they’ll tell me, “Still stroke it.” And I’m like, “My arm’s getting tired, but okay. We got this.” There’s so many different techniques. I do different things every time. One thing you see a lot of porn stars do is like this to the top of the head. It’s like lightly placed in here, and then you’re just like rotating it, and everybody loses it. But I’ve spent a lot of attention on the balls and I feel the muscle and the big vein going down. Sometimes you can feel it between the balls or behind the balls. You can feel the base of their cock still, and I’ll try and lick that through their balls to get that sensation. And I was just listening to a podcast, and they were saying some people, when they do that or do it from the ass, they’re looking for the male G-spot, but it’s j still the base of their cock, and it’s just a sensitive area that never gets touched. I like to get the backside of the balls or the sides because they seem to gasp more. Like That area never gets touched. I just glide. Lots of spit. I’ll have to get a towel and wipe some up. The more spit, the more it glides. I’ve had guys not like spit, but I don’t like it dry. I will gag more if it’s really dry. Also, if somebody, for some reason, smells a little sweaty, the more spit will help wash that away.
SW: Do you do rim jobs and all that stuff at the same time? Do you not like doing them? Is that part of a BJ for you?
KC: I don’t love men’s assholes. I have rimmed Shane Diesel, but that was a funny story. I wasn’t down. So they were like, “Well, you just do three seconds close up and you can fake the rest and we’ll give you more money.” And I was like, “I guess.” But that’s still like a big when you Google that scene, they just retweeted it. That scene’s still going strong. So when you Google Kendra Cole porn, it’s me licking Shane Diesel’s asshole. That’s what I love about porn. You’ve got somebody for everything. SW: Correct me if I’m wrong, one of your niches is you like facials? Do you like cum on your face?
KC: Sometimes. Sometimes it burns my face a little. But I mean, if we’re filming, then wherever it seems the best place, I’m not one that gets mad if you come in my eyes, and I don’t yell at you unless you maliciously stabbed me in the eye with your cock and rubbed it in to make sure that my eyes burned because I wear contacts. That hurts. But otherwise, I just take it as a fun day. What do you expect? It’s shooting cum at your face. And it’s the girls that toss their head back and kind of create a funnel. And then the guy’s aiming for here, but then you toss your head back, so it just hits your eyes automatically. But that’s instinct. We want to go like that, but it’s actually best if you kind of keep straight on and let them paint that way.
SW: How did you come up with your stage name?
KC: I let my agent pick my name, and I just let them stick with it because I could not, I wanted no control, and my brain could not think of a name at all.
SW: You do the first thing that goes well, do you immediately start shooting a lot, or do you decide to maybe take some time and wait and figure out if you want to do it?
KC: Well, I didn’t blow up necessarily because I had tattoos and tattoos were terrible in 2014. Not as bad as when they took me on go sees, and they said, “You can absolutely not have a swastika tattoo,” which apparently one girl had just shown up with multiple and tried to start porn with those tattoos. I had almost all of these. I did not have this one, and this one was mostly done except for the underside of this arm, but I had it here. And my agent was like, “Don’t finish it. Don’t finish it.” But I was like, “It looks stupid.” So I just finished it. But they hated my tattoos. They still don’t love them, but what do you do?
SW: After you do your first scene, are you just doing boy girl? Are you doing boy girl A? Are you doing girl girl?
KC: Are you doing? No, I didn’t do anal, but I was doing boy, girl, girl, girl. I think I only did three or four maybe scenes in Florida, and then they called 101 and asked if 101 would take me in LA because AMA did not do LA stuff. They only do Florida stuff. And then I went to LA and started staying in LA. This is all three weeks after signing a lease on an apartment in Wisconsin. So all of the money that I had saved up and whatnot had just been dissipating so quickly, paying for an apartment, I think, was 775 or something in Wisconsin and 1,500 or more in LA for model houses and Ubering everywhere. And any money that I earned was immediately just gone.
SW: In terms of a career move, did you purposely wait to do anal as a business decision?
KC: Yes, you should. Otherwise, you get shot out in a year, and then they tell you you’re used up and you’re gone. So if you can hold things out, you would last longer initially. But then there’s other girls whose first scene was an anal scene. So it just depends on the person and it’s hit or miss, I suppose, if you can stay in and stay relevant. Sometimes I’m clawing, feeling like I’m falling off the edge, but I’m still here and I’m happy for it. But I’m not done yet.
SW: Do you have an OnlyFans, loyal fans, somebody’s fans at this point?
KC: I have them all. I took like a year break on them all, so I haven’t used them because they take a lot out of you. But I’m getting back into it, and now I’m overwhelmed with all of the content I’ve shot but not uploaded. So now I’m just figuring out how to proper the best way to reinvigorate them all. And then I’m also building a website right now so that I have a regular website again and not just OnlyFans or loyal fans, but technically, I have them all.
SW: For you, when you shoot content, do you shoot stuff you think will sell or stuff you want to do?
KC: Both. If it’s with another person, we kind of ask each other what they might need, or if nobody needs anything specific, like what do you want to do? I just shot a really fun scene with Johnny Sims, and he said he was like, “I was thinking like 10-minute blowjob, 20-minute disposition.” And I was like, “Oh, I was thinking like 45-minute blowjob. I wanted to have my way with you.” And he was like, “Yeah, we could do that. Let’s do that.” So then we just had sex for like four hours. And that scene is going to be awesome. I was an unconventional nun, I suppose. I was wearing LASIK. And that’s for our sites. And to be successful on those platforms and social media, in the case of the OnlyFans, do you think people come for your personality or to watch you get boned?
KC: To watch me get boned. I think there’s 48 specifically that stay around for my personality, even when I’m not using the thing. But I am not a successful social media star by any means. I hate it. And I’m trying to turn that around because you cannot win these days if you are not, you need to be on social media, and you need to be a social media queen. I need to get better at it. But I love photography and being in front of the camera, but also behind it. I don’t like editing. I don’t want to do it. Most people love the editing process and creating it. I take hundreds of photos, and then I just want to relinquish it to somebody else to organize and make sure it gets uploaded because I get posting anxiety that it won’t get the views that it needs to. And then it makes me upset. It’s just an endless cycle. I hate social media. It’s a weird thing. I feel like social media has made companies become so lazy. They want the model to bring in the fans and bring in the money.
SW: You’re basically going to pay for everything before they shoot it.
KC: I’m like, “I want to be there and perform for you. I don’t want to bring the fans to you.
SW: What are your social media handles?
www.instagram.com/kendracole2.0
www.pornhub.com/pornstar/kendra-cole
www.fleshlight.com/pages/fleshlight- pro/764877
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https://atmla.com/performers/female-models/kendra-cole/
SW: Prior to getting in the industry, you were a certified nurse assistant, is that correct?
KC: Yes, That’s what that high school college class was.
SW: Was that something you considered doing before you got into adult?
KC: I was doing it for a year and a half. But nursing assistants literally feed, clean, and wipe ass, so.
SW: For you, what’s the reality is business versus what people think it is?
KC: It’s a lot of hard work and not just mentally on a set, but there’s a lot of hard work outside of a set. You can’t just show up and perform and go home. You have to do your social media. You have to. You have to do the work, you have to make sure that you’re filling out your paperwork when you’re shooting content. Otherwise, you’ll just have a block of scenes that you can’t upload anywhere, especially when OnlyFans gives us the boot again. You got to just take your time. You don’t rush yourself to do anything. It’s sex work. And don’t think that you have to do anything that you don’t want to do yeah for any reason. If somebody’s telling you you have to do something, like you have to give this man a blowjob, you don’t have to. You can forfeit your money and go home if you do not want to give that man a blowjob. But no, you are doing sex work. So you don’t want to come into this industry just for money because it’s a lot of hard work to make any money. Porn is free, and they will tell you that a million times before they buy your scene. So you got to be ready to work and want to be here. Otherwise, you’ll just get pushed right out.
SW: Anything you want to say to all of your fans?
KC: Thanks for loving my slutty ways.
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