Matt Slayer and Che Durena go full chaos mode: porn-tab rituals, dopamine discipline, sex work discretion, fame vs. freedom, building a diehard fanbase, and the pitch for an Avengers-level porno … before diving headfirst into Marvel Rivals, Baldur’s Gate 3, and gamer rage.
Comic and creator Che Durena stops by for a round of cocktails and candid conversation on the new episode of Matt Slayer’s unfiltered And Now We Drink podcast.
And Now We Drink is like ”the conversation at the end of the bar” featuring your favorite writers, comedians, adult film stars, artists, musicians and actors. No topic is off-limits as Slayer and his guests delve into their personal experiences, sharing stories and their unique perspectives on sex, relationships, and life.
In the wide-ranging Episode 464, Matt Slayer sits down with comedian and creator Che Durena for a wildly unfiltered ride through sex, self-control, creative ambition, and way more video game talk than anyone could have predicted. The episode kicks off with a deep, hilarious dive into porn habits, masturbation rituals, dopamine management, edging, and the strange psychology of “earning” a better orgasm. From there, Matt and Che unpack desire, authenticity, the appeal and limits of transactional sex, and why feeling wanted can matter more than the act itself.
The conversation shifts into sex work, privacy, celebrity clients, clout-chasing scandals, pegging rumors, and the business realities behind discretion. Che also opens up about boundaries, guardedness, fame, and why success doesn’t necessarily mean wanting more public recognition. That leads into a thoughtful tangent on building a loyal micro-community, staying creatively irreplaceable, and making content that feels true instead of chasing trends.
Then things get ambitious: Che pitches a full-scale “Avengers of porn” feature film, complete with comedians, legacy performers, OnlyFans stars, red carpet chaos, and a potential international “fuck fighter” tournament plot. Finally, the episode detours into gaming, with Matt and Che nerding out over Marvel Rivals, Deadlock, Baldur’s Gate 3, Cyberpunk, Castlevania, Fallout, Mario nostalgia, and the frustrations of team-based competitive play.
Che’s special, How to Make Your Balls Bigger, is also on the way, making this episode equal parts filthy, funny, surprisingly philosophical, and deeply, deeply nerdy.
The uncensored Episode 464 of And Now We Drink featuring Che Durena is now available via Bleav ( https://bleav.com/shows/and-
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ABOUT AND NOW WE DRINK:
And Now We Drink takes listeners on an intoxicating journey into the world of sex, relationships, and everything in between. Hosted by the charismatic and unfiltered Matt Slayer, the popular show is like ”the conversation at the end of the bar” featuring your favorite writers, comedians, musicians, actors and adult performers.
The podcast grew naturally out of Slayer’s work as a private investigator. “During my day, I ended up getting into podcasts; what else will you do when you have 6-8 hours of sitting in your car? I figured, I know a lot of interesting people, I like talking. I’m a white dude with a beard in L.A. This means I’m supposed to do a podcast, right?”
Alcohol is a great conversational lubricant, and no topic is off-limits as Slayer and his guests delve into their personal experiences, sharing shameless stories that make you laugh, cringe, and maybe even blush a bit. Listen in to discover more about their unique experiences and perspectives on sex, relationships, and life.
Now at over 450 episodes, And Now We Drink has earned nominations for Favorite Adult Podcast in AVN’s 2023 / 2024 / 2025 / 2026 Fan-Voted Awards, Most Popular Radio Show/Podcast in the 2023 / 2024 / 2025 Urban X Awards, and Best Entertainment Podcast in the 2026 ASN Awards. “It’s amazing and heartening to see more and more award shows recognize podcasts’ place in the adult industry,” Slayer says.
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